It’s why I almost die every time I take a spin class, because they rank your bike numbers by who is pedaling the hardest. Last Friday I took a spin class. It had been 3 months since my last spin class, so I knew I was going to struggle. But sure enough, as soon as the...
Life Lessons
Burn the Boats
We’ve done it again. My wife, daughters, and I are on another adventure. We flew to Scotland over the course of 2 days on 2 red eye flights (something I don’t recommend). [I made this video with my girls about the flight. This is our 4th video/episode we made for a...
Helicopter Parent
We’ve all heard that term before. We know what it means. We see it frequently. In others… Right? Maybe it’s because I have daughters. Maybe because what I do for a living is help people avoid making mistakes. Maybe these are just excuses I’m telling myself. But...
The TRUE JOB of a Realtor
When I first started in real estate, I thought my job was to help home buyers find great homes and help homeowners sell their homes. I was wrong. The Realtor® profession is in trouble today because this is how most industry professionals view their job as well....
Parenting fail…we skipped a step.
My daughters, in the 3rd and 5th grades, just signed up for softball. They have never played before. Most of their teammates have been playing for 3+ years already, in T-Ball and Rookie leagues. I only realized this once we had the pre-season meeting with the coach,...
I’m a DORK
I'm a dork. That’s how I feel when I see video footage of myself, like I did earlier this morning. I’ve been teaching myself how to use a green screen in videos because I can see many applications in my work and I like learning new tricks and skills. It’s fun for...
Staying Present (Despite the Past)
I’m 10,000 feet in the air in a cramped plane, heading to Portland for work. I need to prep for an upcoming meeting, but my daughter Ivy dominates my thoughts. She’s eight. For the first 3 years of life, her nickname was the Night Fury. She earned that name for the...
Simple Doesn’t Mean Easy
Today was tough. I didn’t sleep well last night. And for the past two weeks I’ve been getting up an hour earlier each morning to write. Some days I just want to say screw it and go back to sleep. Today was one of those days. But, I managed to convince myself to get up...
Good Will Hunting
Two days ago I wrote about embracing the “collective genius” within my office and I encouraged you to share your stories. Thanks so much to everyone who wrote back, including Paul. Paul’s response: You said you would like to hear from us - so here goes. First, let me...








